Hi, I’m Oksana!
I help ambitious women attract High-Value Men, capture their attention and create amazing soul fulfilled relationships by becoming MAGNETIC to their dreams & desires.
MAG·NET·IZE
(verb)
Attract strongly, as if by a magnet.
Unlock your true authentic SELF, release your inner beauty & become a MAGNET (an energetic match) to your dreams and desires just by being YOU!
The work we do together is about reviling and releasing any hidden fears, blocks and limitations that are holding you back from living your best life and having the love and connection you deserve and desire.
Before we get to the part about me, here’s what I know about you…
You're an amazing, strong, accomplished beautiful woman with a loving and kind heart who achieved a lot and does not want to settle for what IS and wants MORE out of your life and relationship!
You are a woman who leads herself in life and isn’t afraid of challenges and you want to complete your life with a soulful relationship where you can truly feel ALIVE.
You are done with “dating around” and are READY to up-level your mindset, sharpen up your relationship skills, let go of everything that is holding you back and create an amazing relationship that sets your soul on fire.
You want a relationship where you are being loved, seen, heard, cherished and appreciated. You are ready for love, passion and intimacy with a conscious, evolving and accomplished man…
BUT…
In these new dating and relationships dynamics, you feel lost and are not being fully appreciated for WHO you are.
You feel unseen in this crowded and uncertain dating space where everything is not as it’s “used to be” and where men are not in the rush to commit to anything serious or long term and you are wondering “is it really possible for ME to meet my soulmate and have the life I have always dreamed of?”
You have tried doing it “your way”, you read a few relationship books and watched YouTube videos trying to unlock “the secret” of creating an amazing relationship, but somehow it’s still not working for you.
Don’t worry, you are in the right place!
I’ve been there too, overcame those challenges and created an amazing relationship for myself and now help other women to do the same.
I work with women who want to create an exponential abundance of love, connection, fulfillment, joy, passion and desire. Women who want to create incredible soulful relationships, live passionately, experience meaningful connections with their loving partners and feel deep and profound self-love.
Women who want to awake every day to the lives they always dreamed of.
HOW IT ALL BEGUN…
I have found myself single when I least expected…
At the age of 47, after being married to my soulmate for almost two decades I was faced with the harsh reality of “starting my life over” in more ways than one.
I was facing the world as a single woman standing there alone without a plan, not having any confidence, not having any certainty, not knowing what to do next. I had to create a new vision for my life and a new life for myself but most importantly I had to face my insecurities and my limitations, learn how to breathe again and find the new ME.
When I started dating, I noticed that everything I “knew” about relationships wasn’t getting me the results I wanted. Things have shifted in the dating scene and what I knew about relationships was no longer working.
EVERYTHING HAS CHANGED!
Everything seemed to be hard, unfamiliar and different. Dating for me was challenging and frustrating. Communication was time-consuming and disappointing and the overall feel of the dating scene was harsh, cold and impersonal.
Yet I’ve noticed that some people were having success in it...
and I started paying attention to what wasn’t working in the relationship field…
I noticed that people’s obsession with FOMO, instant gratification and the “paradox of choice” was causing people to lose the authentic intimate connection and was in the way of building something lasting and meaningful.
There was something people were truly craving: DEEP EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. Because THAT creates trust and intimacy while seeking instant gratification creates separation.
I experienced this personally in my own dating and relationship journey. After having dated for a couple of years and putting myself “out there”, I experienced:
Frustration
Disappointments
Heartbreaks
Disrespect
Overwhelm
Endless (useless) messaging & texting
Trusting wrong people
Wasting a lot of time and energy
Being treated like a commodity - not as an individual but like another “profile”
There was NO fun, NO excitement and NO satisfaction in my dating life. And needless to say that I wasn’t meeting anyone with whom I could potentially see myself wanting to connect.
And after 2 years of putting myself “out there”, investing my time and energy into dating, I had found NOTHING!
This was a serious wake-up call...
It was time for me to redefine the way dating and relationships were evolving in the new paradigm and create a NEW WAY that works at THIS time.
I realized that I needed to stand out with my TRUTH. I needed to take my power back and take charge of my love life.
I needed new knowledge, new tools and new skills that would work with this new dating and relationships reality.
I decided instead of dating harder, I need to date smarter!
I stopped doing everything that everyone else was doing and started doing it DIFFERENTLY.
One day I decided to listen to the nudges of my intuition
And began an “experiment” to bring more of my authenticity, feminine vulnerability, my natural boldness, my “unconventional” ways of doing things AND I started practicing “detachment to the outcome” in my dating life.
I stopped hiding and no longer wanted to “blend in”. I decided to go against my fears of being seen, judged or misunderstood and I decided to reveal my authentic truth and be MYSELF. No social mask, no attachments, no expectations.
Just ME!
I stopped playing by everyone else’s rules and decided to play by my own rules.
I removed all societal expectations, got aligned with my core values, set high standards for myself, created the baseline of my non-negotiables and followed through with strong boundaries.
I decided to raise the bar and I went against the grain!
I changed everything I normally did. I evolved my identity, upgraded my relationship skills and applied my new “methodology” and SUDDENLY, my dating reality started to change!
I developed a Savvy Woman’s mindset, embodied behaviors and communication and started using gender intelligence strategies that work effectively in the new reality of dating and relationships.
And after a few months of this “experiment”, something completely unexpected happened:
My dating experience has enormously improved, it became much more fun, exciting and interesting. No longer was I sitting by the phone endlessly typing or going on boring and uninspiring dates. No longer was I feeling frustrated and overwhelmed or treated as a “commodity”.
Men started approaching me with class, treating me with respect and engaging with high-level conversations. Overall my dating life became fun and enjoyable and eventually, after a few months of dating, I met an incredible man and got into a relationship with him.
BUT
During this experience, I developed a methodology that I call…
The Magnetic Woman Method™
In it, I combine my 10+ years of experience in personal development, human psychology, gender intelligence, love & relationship science, hormonal studies, feminine leadership skills, with the piece that was missing. Your True Feminine Essence.
The result?
A NEW approach to dating that (consistently) attracts High-Value Men who are emotionally mature and are READY for a relationship, regardless of where you meet them, organically or online. I “infused” this methodology with the New Paradigm Teachings that applies to the CURRENT reality of dating and relationships that has shifted everyone's expectations. This methodology is based on WHO YOU ARE, your energy and the “strategy” that works for YOU, not what everyone else is doing.
This didn’t work just for me, here are some of my client’s results…
…Joan
Met her amazing man after being single for over 8 years and is happily in a relationship.
…Javiera
Met her ideal partner and is happily in a relationship after her heart was shattered by the break up with her fiancé.
…Suzana
After being married for 35 years and not having any experience in dating, she is now showing up boldly, dating CONFIDENTLY and consistently attracting High Value men.
…Mary
Met a man of her dreams after being single most of her life and is feeling like a modern day Goddess.
…Cherie
Healed her blocks, discovered her inner Muse, got in touch with her sensual and feminine side, made bold moves in her life and moved to the city and are now living life on her terms. LOVING life and attracting High Value men left right and center!
And there are so many more results like that...
It’s time for you to have what YOU want!
Since then, I became a Highly Successful Life, Dating & Relationship Coach
I’m a Canadian-based, Certified Mars Venus Life & Relationship Coach, trained by the legendary John Gray. I am a mentor & change catalyst who is deeply committed to helping women OWNING their truth, finding the love they always wanted & creating amazing soul-fulfilling relationships of their dreams.
I work with women who want to have MORE out of life. Women who are not willing to settle for “what is” and are boldly pursuing their heart-felt dreams & desires.
Over the years, I’ve guided ambitious women to create fulfilling lives they absolutely LOVE. I helped them find love and create amazing relationships. All facilitated through my workshops, programs, events, masterminds and VIP coaching.
I help women like YOU create fulfilled lives they LOVE & amazing loving & passionate relationships that set their souls on fire.
It’s my heart’s deepest desire to help women achieve their dreams. Life and Relationship Coaching has been my profession for the past 10+ years of real-life experience plus extensive formal coaching and training as a Life and Relationship Coach.
It’s my expertise.
My clients have found their soulmates, created beautiful relationships, manifested incredible bodies, opportunities, jobs, made quantum leaps in their businesses, upgraded their mindsets and leaped into their new levels of love, success and passion and upgrading their Quality of Life.
You’re in good hands!
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OKSANA IRWIN
CERTIFIED MARS VENUS LIFE & RELATIONSHIP COACH
Oksana Irwin is a Certified Mars Venus Life and Relationship Coach, trained by the legendary John Gray. She is on a continuing mission to change the world one love story at a time!
Oksana is a leader in the dating and relationship coaching field. She equips her clients with powerful behaviors, winning mindsets and gender intelligence knowledge that empower them to unleash their mental and emotional constraints and achieve their very best in love, life and career.
Within 3 years of sadly losing both her long-term marriage and role in a thriving family business, Oksana has created a new loving, passionate relationship and built a successful coaching business. She turned her pain into passion, passion into purpose and purpose into profit by helping many women along the way.
She impacts her clients by unlocking access to feminine power, lowering stress and skyrocketing confidence. Her clients learn effective and powerful gender dynamics, sufficient hormonal balance and potent attraction and polarity techniques that produce outstanding results in creating loving and lasting passionate relationships and thriving successful and fulfilling lives.
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